I write,
I speak,
I co-create.
I want women to have great sex, and fully own our bodies - in all the ways! I write books, host conversations, and organise festivals that I hope will inspire us collectively to live more pleasure centred lives.
“The Sex Lives of African Women” was described by Publishers Weekly as “an astonishing report on the quest for sexual liberation” in their starred review. It was also listed by The Economist as a best book of the year.
Part travelogue and part manifest, “Seeking Sexual Freedom”, is the powerful and bold call to joy and sexual freedom all women need today”
My Sexual Freedom Workbook
A guide to explore what sexual freedom means to you—through reflection, imagination, and intention. Take your time with it. Be honest. Be bold. Be you.
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While my books tell stories of African sexualities, rites and rituals, my Substack is where I share how I live them. It’s a space for more intimate reflections on pleasure, wellness, and the pursuit of freedom in everyday life. Join our growing community for weekly letters that I don't share anywhere else.